About Me

Mistress Lady Nightshade brandishing a tawse


I've always been an assertive, take charge kind of person; it just comes naturally to me. I know my own mind and I have an unrelenting tenacity when it comes to achieving my goals and getting what I want. I'm forthright in my views and I tend to take a direct, head-on approach to problem solving.

I've been a Lifestyle Mistress on and off for more than 15 years, having first discovered BDSM at the age of 18. It felt so natural that I didn't initially realise that not everyone did it! BDSM and Female Domination have been a part of my life ever since. It's very much an inherent part of who I am. Please understand that I don't play at this. Dominance is a part of me, not just something I do.

I offer sessions to select submissives, slaves, masochists and bottoms in an extremely well-equipped, purpose-built dungeon in Reading, Berkshire, in the Thames Valley, UK. I'm picky about whom I see and won't session with just anyone. I see only those sharing my interests and ethos, and with whom I feel a mutually satisfying session is possible.

Physically, I am 5' 6" tall in bare feet and very busty and curvaceous. I have an intense personal fetish for latex and leather, as well as corsets and high-heeled boots and shoes, (the higher and spikier, the better). There's little I love more than being encased in a skin-tight latex outfit, a tightly laced corset and thigh boots, ideally with a contented slave or two at my feet.

As a Mistress or Dominant, I am demanding, imaginative and adventurous. I give 100% in each session and I won't tolerate any less than your very best either. Once the requisite trust has been established, I love nothing more than to get deep inside the head of a submissive or slave, to probe the murkiest corners of your psyche.

Tell me your darkest dreams and desires and allow me to understand what really makes you "tick". Then, if you're brave enough, let me lead you on a journey, leaving behind the mundane responsibilities of every day life. I'll push your limits and gently, (or not so gently!), encourage you to go further than you ever thought possible.

Although I am incredibly serious about what I do, I do it with a strong sense of fun. I am just as likely to do a puppy play session using a huge ostrich feather as a tail, simply because it entertains me, as I am to use my puppy tail plug. Even I don't know what I'm going to do sometimes, until I do it, so there are certain to be some surprises for my submissives.

Mistress Lady Nightshade in latex