I am new to this and have never seen a Professional Mistress before. Is this a problem? What can I expect?

It's not a problem. The main requirement, in order to get the best out of a session with me, is to be honest. I'll listen to your ideas and your concerns, and we can take things as gently and as gradually as you need.

Before I agree to session with you, I will ask you to send me an e-mail detailing your experience and various information, including your hard limits, (those are the things you definitely don't want to do), the things you are interested in trying and your ideas for the session. We will exchange however many e-mails are necessary in order for me to determine if we are likely to be a compatible match. Only then will I offer you the opportunity to book a session. This is to ensure that we are both well-suited and likely to be able to have a successful, enjoyable session together.

Just prior to the session itself, we will have an informal chat about how we each would like the session to go. This time is not part of your session time. We will agree your limits, which I will always respect, and a safeword, which, if used, will stop the session immediately.

Following the session there will be a little time available for you to collect yourself and to feedback to me how you thought the session went. This time is very important to ensuring our future sessions are even better.

Where are you located?

In Reading, Berkshire in the Thames Valley, UK. I session from a purpose-built, extensively equipped dungeon close to the Junction 12 of the M4 and easily accesible by public transport. Reading Central is the nearest rail station.

Is there parking nearby?

There is ample, free parking close to my dungeon.

How should I address you?

Mistress or Ma'am. In certain circumstances I may also allow Miss. There is no need to use capitalisation for You, Your etc. This just makes me roll my eyes and laugh.

I have a strong desire to submit but I don't like pain. How much pain will I be expected to endure?

My sessions are consensual and my intention is that we both enjoy them. If you don't enjoy pain, or don't want pain to feature as part of the session, there is no reason that it must. Believe it or not, I won't enjoy hurting you if you aren't enjoying being hurt.

Do you use safewords?

Until we establish trust, and get to know each other, I will insist on you having a safeword during the session. I hope you'll never have to use it, but you will have the option if it becomes necessary. Once we know each other a bit better, the use of safewords is negotiable.

Will I be allowed sexual relief?

I recognise that this is important to some people. You may be allowed to relieve yourself at the end of the session, if you have pleased me, but please do not count on it and do not ask, or worse, expect, me to do it for you. Be aware also that there may be an additional "cost" to being allowed relief, such as being made to consume your ejaculate afterwards.

I also enjoy ruining and denying orgasms, so even if you are told you may relieve yourself, you may still not get the outcome you'd hoped for. If being allowed relief is important to you, or vital to your enjoyment of the session, please discuss this with me beforehand.

I have a disability; is this a problem?

I would love to be able to say no here, as I am very disability-friendly myself. However, certain types of disability may impose restrictions upon the type of scene possible. Also, my chambers are accessed by a number of steep, stone steps, which may present a problem. Please see my Medical page for more information about what I need to know and feel free to contact me with any genuine questions.

I have a medical condition; will you still session with me?

Possibly. It depends upon the nature of the condition and the type of session you are interested in.

I have a script I want you to follow. Will you do that?

No. I'm a Domme, not an actress. It's highly unlikely I could follow your script and make it convincing, and I wouldn't enjoy trying. I need to enjoy a session in order for it to be any good. You are far more likely to have a good time if I am comfortable and having fun.

Will you wear what I want you to wear for our session?

It depends upon how you ask and whether I feel like it. I don't take demands or instructions well, though, so bear that in mind. I also won't wear anything in which I will be uncomfortable, so requesting I wear head-to-toe latex during a heat wave will do you no good at all.

I'm not submissive but I enjoy bondage and sensation play sometimes, would you see me?

Perhaps, if I think we could have an enjoyable session together. I'm not going to engage in a battle of wills, so you'd have to be willing to let me run the session. If you think you could do that, please contact me as per the instructions on my Booking and Contact page.

I like to scream and shout and be noisy during sessions. Is this a problem?

No, absolutely not. Please let me know, though, before the session that this is the case because otherwise I may think I'm pushing you too hard and stop the session!

Do you see couples?

Yes, as long as I am in charge during the session and as long as both people want to be there. To ensure I will not be seeing anyone uncomfortable or unwilling to be involved, I will need to speak to your partner at least once prior to booking the session. Depending on the nature of the session, a couples session may require a higher tribute. Please contact me as per the instructions on my Booking and Contact page if you require more information.

Do you see women?

Yes, I enjoy sessions with women every bit as much as those with male clients.

Are you LGBT friendly?

It saddens me that you even need to ask. Yes, absolutely.

Do you do out-calls? Would you see me at a hotel, or at my home?

Possibly, if you are an established, trusted client. Otherwise, no.

What's with the purple leopard print?!

It's a little tongue-in-cheek, since I think BDSM should be fun, and sometimes outrageously ridiculous. Purple is my favourite colour and I have a bit of a weakness for leopard print, so it's also a bit of a personal touch. It's less a sign I have no class than an indication that I have a sense of humour. At least, that's the intention.